Convince people that it’s a needed and biblically warranted hierchacal position.
Convince people that leadership is a “Spiritual Gift” (Romans 12) which some have and others don’t, and that the Ephesians 4:11 gifts are “Leadership Gifts.”
Convince people that they should esteem you higher than themselves.
Convince people that leadership in the New Testament Church is the same as leadership as modeled in the Old Testament Era.
Convince people that Hebrews 13:17 really means “you must obey your leaders.”
Convince others and speak often about the importance of “coverings.”
Convince yourself that people need to do what you say.
Missionary in the Andes Mountains Cloud Forest Region of Ecuador. My last name, "Labrador," is the word that's used for "Vine Worker" in the Spanish Bible, and it's OK with me. 
David Woods on Sabbath & Mission Part II
Rob Kampen on Sabbath & Mission Part II
Sounds like a lot of convincing people…..and that’s all it is.
Wow, that would be tough! By step 7 a person on that path would be convinced to despair.
Sometimes getting into leadership is casting ideas/vision about just how difficult it is to accomplish xyz… yet at the sam time convincing the group you have what it takes to take them there. Raise the bar so high, only you are confident to tackle it. The group will be disempowered and look to you for guidance.
Yes, I believe you have number 8 there.
Thanks for showing us how we can reinforce our leadership structure with verses! (:
Nice piece of work here Miguel. How did you learn all this brother? You can never return from some place you have never been. Miguel, you’ve been there? Great look at the potholes of “leading” others at church.