Convince people that it’s a needed and biblically warranted hierchacal position.
Convince people that leadership is a “Spiritual Gift” (Romans 12) which some have and others don’t, and that the Ephesians 4:11 gifts are “Leadership Gifts.”
Convince people that they should esteem you higher than themselves.
Convince people that leadership in the New Testament Church is the same as leadership as modeled in the Old Testament Era.
Convince people that Hebrews 13:17 really means “you must obey your leaders.”
Convince others and speak often about the importance of “coverings.”
Convince yourself that people need to do what you say.